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Two Virgins: Love and Sex

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          I lay on my queen size bed, naked, except with an untied silk bath robe on. A glass of red wine sat on the night stand; my alarm clock read 12:00 a.m. but I was far from tired. I was not alone in my modest sanctuary, my love sat on the opposite end of the room. We looked at each other intently while we prepared ourselves to perform the most beautiful of acts. We loved each other so much; we had been in love for as long as I could remember knowing what true love meant. Tonight was going to be a magical night; my body was tingling as my love approached me with eyes gleaming, body sweating. My loins felt as though they were on fire, I felt every nerve cell in my body electrified with anticipation. My breathing intensifies my hormones where kicking into high gear to all parts of my body; one tells my heart beat to increase, another tells my nipples to go hard, while others tell my body to do everything it can to release. We move faster and faster, my love and I are on the brink. My body begged for release, it did. Like the power of a lightning bolt I felt a pulsation of pleasure wave throughout our bodies. My love let out a mighty groan, I followed suit. We snuggled ourselves into bed still reeling from that most beautiful of experiences. I took a sip of my red wine on the night stand; the clock read 12:53 a.m. I looked into my love's eyes, they sent a wave of pure gratitude. We where now officially lovers.
          
           In a world of indifference, love and sex has become two entirely different entities. Sex is seen as just another product to sell, to fill the wallets of greedy perverts.  Those of a religious orientation see an act of sex as the work of the devil and are punishable by eternal damnation. Parents of blooming lovers see it as a potential derailment of their child's successful lives. I cannot blame parents or churches for thinking this way though, it's just the way sex is seen nowadays. It is a shame to see one of mankind's oldest and most beautiful of courtship rituals blighted by the naïve and the reckless. What I mean is that as cheesy as this may sound sex is like a rose; you handle it carefully and it can bring you nothing but beauty and happiness, but if you handle it carelessly it brings you nothing but pain (i.e. a rose has thorns). Some of the stories I hear about people having sex just for the hell of it is just plain sad, don't get me wrong I am not a religious preacher (far from it) but hearing people doing these most loving of acts as a one night stand, well it turns my stomach a little. I mean I'm 18 and still a virgin and I know better than anyone how much a guy or a gal would want to lose it. But to go to the extent people my age and younger are going about to do it, well again I say it turns my stomach a little.

           We all have urges, it's a fact of life no matter what the church or your parents tell you. We all have our special "me times" in (public or private) bathrooms or our own bedrooms and that's okay, there is nothing wrong with that. The point is do not let your natural lust blind your judgment; don't have sex unless you know for sure that you are ready, when you are in love. I heard a recent report on CNN about teen sex which surprised me; about 7 out of 10 women have had sex (voluntarily/involuntarily) at age 14 and younger; the stats are the same for men. Now I don't know about you but when I was that age I've heard guys and gals preaching that they have lost their virginity but I always knew that at least 70% of them where lying just to get attention, but now seeing these stats -that are genuine- well it concerns me. People treat this act as nothing more than a fad to boost you up popularity chain; I know I said that we have urges but this takes it off the deep end. What makes it worse is people doing it just for the hell of it take very little if any precautions. According to a stat on www.soundvision.com nationally about one million women under the age of 20 get pregnant per year or about 2800 teen pregnancies A DAY. Guys wear a bloody condom, women wear a bloody diaphragm! If you want to go ahead and do it, don't come out of it with a little souvenir you may not want. Not just pregnancies but also those fun STD's can really ruin your weekend; a stat from the same source indicates that about 1 in 4 sexually active teens has an STD of some kind (HIV, AIDS, Herpes, ect).

            Now I am not saying this to scare anybody off from having sex, I am just trying to prove that it is something that you cannot take lightly. It is something you ought to do with the one you love, the one you know you want to spend the rest of your life with. To me sex without love is pointless. I would much rather give myself a hand job than go and pay some person I don't know to do it for me. I do stress the importance of safe sex, use rubbers and all that fun stuff. Also to fellow virgins don't feel obligated to lose your virginity as soon as an opportunity presents itself, you don't know what you could be getting yourself into. Virgin or otherwise you would be no different than you where before, accept maybe a little hollower. No one should force you into having sex just because they say it will make you cooler than you are now. You go about feeling that way then people will know how to handle you; people will know how to take advantage of you. I am no sexologist, I am no preacher (or church go'er for that matter); I am only a guy who feels a great concern about this. I have a younger sister who is 13 now, whom because I have moved to Canada cannot look out for her or keep an eye on her. I can only hope that she is smart enough to know everything that I have just written down and that she is strong willed enough not to get sucked into the whole (sex=popularity) mentality. In conclusion (love=sex) not (sex=love).
In another life I use to write a lot of erotica, the first paragraph and title is based on one of those stories. I wrote it just to spread the word of this growing problem. (love=sex) not (sex=love).

Peace ^_^ ZenLay
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Ask-Jaylene-Mountain's avatar
I hate how people say that 'sex is a bad thing. people shouldnt do it'
Sex is apart of human life! We are all meant to do it! But, we must keep out purity til we're married.